The opposite sex is a mystery!
Why do they think, say or behave in a certain way?
What do they find attractive?
What can you do to understand them better?
Why do some people have consistently great dates, strong, enriching interactions with the opposite sex, while most others never seem to get it right?
The most common statement I’ve heard from women is that “something important is missing” in their interactions with men even on their ‘good’ dates, while men say that they find it “ hard to find a genuine connect” with the women they’re meeting. Both sides are compromising their standards and having an interaction that doesn’t meet their expectations! This is the biggest reason everyone is serial dating and still not finding the right partner to have a fulfilling, rewarding relationship.
The key is to align ourselves in a way that ensures that we not only understand the opposite sex but first understand our own inner selves and what we really need.
Whether you’re looking for a short term interaction or a long term relationship, time is valuable! And some guidance goes a long way in ensuring that you don’t waste any more of it on looking for someone, just reasonably acceptable and then have a lukewarm, unremarkable interaction with them! We are spectacular people! We need to be with spectacular people and have a spectacular love life!